How To Tell If She’s Into You?

“Relationships aren’t what they used to be”. What’s that supposed to mean? Millennials can’t imagine their lives without social media. The painful thought of waiting for the postman to deliver your letter a week later from your bae is the worst nightmare. Instant messaging has made everyone extremely impatient. If the text shows two lines no one is willing to wait another second to get a response. How do you maintain a relationship in a fast paced world?

There are gazillion reasons why she is with you right now. Make sure you underline ‘right now‘ in that sentence. Where do I start counting the possible answers? It could all be a PR work as she was dumped by her ex boyfriend on Facebook. Or she’s tolerating you simply based on ‘convenience’ as you play superman in the relationship. Maybe it could be pure love (if it still exists) or accept it as you will never know.  Ask yourself the questions below before you send her uncles to pay ‘lobola’.

Is it only for the “gram”? 

Can you handle real talk? Bro, you could just be the ‘cutie pie’ for Instagram. You could take her in fancy restaurant to eat and connect BUT she’ll be stressing about the wifi password. All she want is to check in, take a selfie and share a status (be honoured if she tags you). Instead of getting to know each other you’ll be her photographer for the night.

Not invested? 

Is she expecting you to spice up her life? Bro, you’re dating a vampire! All relationships require some effort to keep the fire burning. Look for the small things ― waking up to a note, a text, check up calls, breakfast in bed and many more. Those things cost nothing. If she can’t do any of those but expecting you to shower her with gifts. Um…abort the mission soldier!

Is she interested in your world? 

If she wants to go fishing with you even if the river makes her sick ― pay that lobola. Relationships are about compromise. The genuine partner will go out of her way to see you happy. It’s those small deeds like taking a half day to escort you to the airpot or drive for an hour just to see your face. No woman  can fake that.

If she buys you Editor’s Choice  just to see you cleaned up ― she’s legit bro!

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Anele@Manbox