What Could Your Anger Help You Achieve?

Anger is the golden emotion for most men. Let’s admit it gents, throwing toys is more fun than putting them nicely in a box. As a dude, with every tear drop your ‘street cred’ rating drops drastically by 80%. If you want to be crucified I dare you to be vulnerable in public. Anger is more comfortable for men. In those couple of minutes (or hours if you’re like Hulk) of rage every action feels justified. Then you realised the damage when you get back to your senses: “I wish I can take it all back”.

Can you handle real talk? Nothing could your anger really help you achieve. Apologies for the misleading headline. The capacity to be aware of, and express one’s emotions, and to handle interpersonal judiciously and empathetically ― that’s emotional intelligence. Below are the two question you need to ask yourself before kicking and shouting:

Do I have enough data to freak out? 

This is what Dr Brene Brown suggests. It’s quite dangerous to act based on limited data. What if you’re mistaken? Assumptions can put you in a super sticky situation. By taking your time to verify all facts will help you solve issues amicably.

Is it worth it? 

It could be the taxi driver’s fault. Perhaps it could be your childhood. Or just the bad weather. Is it worth the fight though? All that energy and time can be invested fixing whatever the quarrel is. Don’t you ever ask yourself, why the perpetrator always say “it wasn’t my intention to kill”? Bro, it is never worth it even when you have enough data.

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