Is It Just A Fling Or Not?

It’s really hard to tell if it’s just a fling or something real. The honeymoon phase would convince you that she is the one. New love makes all of us behave differently. It’s like walking in a bridge with your eyes closed. That’s human nature — we can’t run away from it. When the love bug bites it seems to affect the logic, especially at the beginning.

Bro, do you want to know if it’s just a fling or not? Firstly, don’t look for someone to complete you or fulfil your desires. It’s almost impossible to make the other person happy — don’t even attempted to jump into that horse. However, you can pay attention to these two qualities to see if it’s the real deal.

COMMUNICATION 

Of course, it’s a bit tricky to communicate when you can do other things. Instead of telling her how you prefer things you’re more comfortable cuddling with her. Imagine you both lay the foundation and voice out your expectations (if you have any) in the beginning. If this new person is willing to take this road with you, perhaps you have nothing to worry about.

BOUNDARIES 

As boring as it is but it’s important to set boundaries. This can’t be done after the honeymoon phase — it needs to be done at the very beginning while things are all cute. Men tend to assume things instead of asking or putting them in the table. It’s a huge turn off when your partner no longer respects your boundaries. Perhaps by then, it’s a little bit late.

What other qualities did I miss?

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Anele@Manbox