This Is How You Handle Ghosting

Ghosting is being embraced now as a norm by few. Most people prefer disappearing peacefully without break-up drama. As we all know that break-ups can be unbearable. Ghosting is when someone vanishes into thin air with no explanation. Perhaps in their mind, they’re doing you a huge favour by not confronting or explaining things to you.

It’s a pity that when someone you dig ghost you — it takes forever to move on than the usual  “it’s not you, it’s me” game. The bad record of “what did I do wrong” will play constantly in your head. Some would blame the way we’ve been socialised and justify ghosting as the act of kindness. Bro, there’s nothing you can really do besides moving on. That’s how cruel this life is.

 The game of “what did I do wrong” will be a constant record in your head. Bro, there’s nothing you can do besides moving on. That’s how life is. If you really want to avoid confrontation, send a short text saying you’re done. Make up a lie if you have to.

This is how you deal with ghosting…

Seeking for answers or stalking the other person will prolong the pain. As unfair as it is, chasing someone who doesn’t help you is bad service to yourself. Of course, that’s not easy because you’ve invested your time and energy into that relationship. The “what ifs” will bring more headaches than closure. Dude, whenever someone is playing the ghosting game with you — consider it as the freedom to invest in yourself.

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